I've done some reading in several forums and other web sites about the difficulties that we adults are having in establishing longterm meaningful ANR/ABF (adullt nursing/breast feeding) relationships.
What I see is that one of the individuals is seeing the realtionship as sexual and the other is not. To me an ANR/ABF relationship is not about being sexual. It is about sharing ones self completely with the other in a most intimate, caring and relaxing way. There is a special bond being built here. And when this is going on both individuals will be at a relaxed state as opposed to an aroused state.
Suckling I find to be very calming and comforting. It does not matter wether the lady is lactating or not. Just to be able to latch on and suckle for a long period of time is what I enjoy. We can be clothed laying on the sofa watching TV with my head on a pillow in her lap while I suckle. Again it is the bonding that is going on and not being sexual. I also find it very enjoyable to suckle when waking or going to sleep. And as odd as it may seem I enjoy having my breasts suckled as well.
Yes breast play can lead to very exciting sexual encounters but the joy, comfort and relaxation of suckling can be just as gratifying.
So it appears to come down to expectations. Where one will think it will lead to a full on sexual encounter and the other is just looking for comfort and relaxation. And when neithers expectations are met then both are let down.
23 July 2011
19 July 2011
Body Parts - Turn Ons and Offs
Why is it we humans find we are turned on by certain body parts yet despise others?
What are breasts covered with? Skin, yes there are underlying parts that help define them but what we see and touch is skin. And that goes for any and all of our body parts.
So if someone can suckle a womans or mans breast they should also have no problems with any other part of the body provided the entire body is clean and has no external wounds.
Now I can understand there may be some misgivings about suckling on body parts with hair due to them coming loose and wanting not to ingest them. Though on the other hand there are those who prefer an unshaven or trimmed body.
Therefore in my thinking if it brings one pleasure they should be able to indulge in it, from their toes, to the top of their head and all points in between, leaving none untouched.
Recall in the book of Genesis humans were created by God and were naked and they had no shame. It was not until they ate from the tree of knowledge that they saw themselves as naked and covered themselves. Why do you think we were created naked? I think it it was because He knew He created us to see each other as a whole not in part and certainly not to be ashamed of our bodies or to lust after or shy away from certain parts of our bodies.
What are breasts covered with? Skin, yes there are underlying parts that help define them but what we see and touch is skin. And that goes for any and all of our body parts.
So if someone can suckle a womans or mans breast they should also have no problems with any other part of the body provided the entire body is clean and has no external wounds.
Now I can understand there may be some misgivings about suckling on body parts with hair due to them coming loose and wanting not to ingest them. Though on the other hand there are those who prefer an unshaven or trimmed body.
Therefore in my thinking if it brings one pleasure they should be able to indulge in it, from their toes, to the top of their head and all points in between, leaving none untouched.
Recall in the book of Genesis humans were created by God and were naked and they had no shame. It was not until they ate from the tree of knowledge that they saw themselves as naked and covered themselves. Why do you think we were created naked? I think it it was because He knew He created us to see each other as a whole not in part and certainly not to be ashamed of our bodies or to lust after or shy away from certain parts of our bodies.
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